The name, that is. We who are traditionalists must STOP using that name (or, for convenience, the initials - SSM).
Instead, what we CAN do is to recognize the state-endorsed institution of SSU - Same Sex Union.
The word marriage needs to be reserved for the traditional participants - 1 man, 1 woman.
So, try to remember:
SSU - for YOU, and YOU, and (maybe) YOU!